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Affluent Parenting: Building Confidence and Competence in the Next Generation

Writer: John Messervey
John Messervey
Sep 1
1 min read

Updated: 4 days ago

Presented by John E. Messervey — Private Advisor to America's Leading Families™


Two smiling men lift a laughing little girl by the hands in a sunny backyard, with houses and greenery behind them.

Although raising children has never been easy, families of affluence face unique parenting challenges. Every wealthy family faces the daunting task of accelerating competencies across generations. Nurturing a generation of confident and motivated leaders is the critical task for family wealth continuity. In this session, internationally known family business/wealth consultant John Messervey will share essential parenting lessons shared by hundreds of high performing families seeking personal responsibility, wealth stewardship and family harmony.


Drawing on experience advising high-performing families, this article explores the conversations, behaviors, and leadership practices that foster family harmony, responsible stewardship, and lasting wealth.


  • The seven "C's " of confident parenting

  • Common goals:  the importance of parenting in alignment

  • Your wealth history; sharing the story of your family's "good struggle"

  • Avoiding affluenza, entitlement, snowplow parenting and a failure to launch

  • Communicating values, enforcing consequences and rewarding performance

  • Common phrases that should never be said in HNW parenting

  • Why parenting millennials and the "I" generation is vastly different

  • New threats, new opportunities for family business heirs in a vastly different world



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"A must for anyone who has a family member joining the business."

"You'll laugh, and you may cry, but you will never look at parenting the same way again."

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